Skip to main content

Open Letter: “Every Woman – What the Internet Missed About Peach, Kiara & the Real Trap”

 

Open Letter: 
“Every Woman – What the Internet Missed About Peach, Kiara & the Real Trap”

By Pamela Jackson | She Heals Silently

Dear Sisters,

While the internet feasts on chaos, I see the code inside the conflict.
This back-and-forth between Peach McIntyre and Kiara McMillan?
It’s more than clout, courses, or credit.
It’s conditioning.

The Public Saw Ego. I Saw Evidence.

Two women.
From the same struggle.
Section 8. Food stamps. Children by one man.
Built platforms. Raised families. Poured into others.
And yet, here we are—watching them be pitted against each other for likes, shares, and digital side-eyes.
The system didn’t just teach them to build.
It taught us all to fight for the spotlight because we’ve been programmed to believe there’s only room for one.

Let’s Be Clear: This Isn’t About Just Them

Both Peach and Kiara have faced:

  1. Demonetization (for breastfeeding, of all things)
  2. Targeted censorship
  3. Algorithmic suppression
  4. Wrongful evictions
  5. Unseen spiritual warfare
You think that’s coincidence?
Nah. That’s control.
This is what happens when women rise too fast without permission.
When they start feeding their babies and their audiences with truth, income, and independence.

They Monetized Motherhood. So, the System Moved In.

Peach wasn’t just evicted.
She was publicly displaced—like many of us—by the same system that profits from our poverty.
She didn’t just have C-sections.
She was forced into a surgical womb trauma—twice—while the same platforms that made her go viral quietly drained her monetization and her peace.
And Kiara? She took a class and rose up—fast. But instead of being celebrated, she was questioned.
Because this world still isn’t used to Black women ascending without explanation.

The Real Agenda: Divide & Distract

Let me say it plain:

This drama feeds the algorithm.
But it starves our unity.
We are so busy screenshotting and sub-tweeting that we forgot:
We are not each other’s competition. We are each other’s cover.
Every time we turn on each other, we turn off our collective power.

Breastfeeding Is Rebellion

When a mother is demonetized for nourishing her child on her own terms,
that is not about “community guidelines.”
That’s about the state wanting control of the milk.
Control of the body.
Control of the message.
The same system that told us we couldn’t provide is now offended that we are.

An Open Letter to Every Woman Watching

Peach and Kiara’s story is not about choosing sides.
It’s a mirror.

If you’ve ever:

  1. Felt punished for rising too quickly
  2. Been called ungrateful for outgrowing struggle
  3. Watched your income disappear because you refused to play by the rules
  4. Been made to feel like you had to pick between motherhood and monetization...

Then you’re in this letter too.

Sister, We Are Every Woman

The real enemy isn’t each other.

It’s the setup. The silence. The systems.

I don’t know about you—but I’m tired of watching queens' claw at each other for scraps when we should be building thrones side by side.

Let this moment wake us up.

Let this letter remind us:

We are not rivals. We are reflections.
We are not threats. We are the truth.
We are not disposable. We are divine.

 

With love, clarity, and a holy clapback,

Pamela Jackson

She Heals Silently. The Phoenix Coach. A mother who sees what they don't want us to.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

I’m a Cassie Too: When Abuse Looks Like Fame, Love, and Fear

I’m a Cassie Too: When Abuse Looks Like Fame, Love, and Fear There are some stories you don’t just watch—you feel. When the headlines broke about Cassie’s lawsuit against Diddy , I didn’t need the full details to understand the truth. I didn’t need the video footage to validate what I already knew in my spirit. Because I’ve lived it. Because I’m a Cassie too. ✖️ The Abuse That Doesn’t Leave Bruises Not all abuse shows up in black and blue. Some of it looks like luxury. Like gifts with invisible strings. Like silence in exchange for safety. Like walking on marble floors with a mind full of landmines. Some of us were taught to: mistake control for protection mistake trauma bonds for real love confuse gaslighting for guidance And when we tried to speak up? We were labeled dramatic. Unstable. Disloyal. 🏛️ The System Protects Its Own What happened to Cassie isn’t just a “celebrity problem.” It’s a systemic problem. It’s a spiritual problem. It’s what happens when: power gets licensed money...

Zimmerman vs. Karmelo: What’s the Difference?

Zimmerman vs. Karmelo: What’s the Difference? Two cases. One pattern. A system that never stopped. By The Phoenix Coach™ The short answer? Race. Media bias. And who gets the luxury of being called a victim. In 2012, the world watched George Zimmerman pursue 17-year-old Trayvon Martin through a Florida neighborhood, against the advice of 911. Trayvon, carrying Skittles and iced tea, was doing nothing more than walking home. Minutes later, he was dead. Zimmerman claimed self-defense under Florida’s “ Stand Your Ground ” law. He said Trayvon attacked him. But Trayvon couldn’t speak for himself—because he was murdered. There were no close-range witnesses. No one who could challenge Zimmerman’s narrative. And so, he walked free. Fast forward to today. A similar tragedy is unfolding in Texas—only this time, the Black teen is alive . His name is Karmelo Anthony (not the celebrity athlete, but a young man whose story is being warped by the media and weaponized by conservative outlets for clic...

Shell Games: When the Government Plays Like the Mob

  Shell Games: When the Government Plays Like the Mob How Public Systems Mirror Shell Companies to Profit Off Pain By Pamela Jackson | She Heals Silently™ | #TheSilentEvictionSeries They called it racketeering when Sean "Diddy" Combs allegedly used a web of shell companies to silence victims, funnel money, and protect his empire. But what do you call it when the government does the same thing ? Because make no mistake— they do . And they’ve been doing it longer, better, and with far more devastating reach. 🏛️ Shell Companies 101 — And the Dirty Mirror A shell company is a business with no active operations. It exists to: - Hide ownership - Move money - Dodge taxes or responsibility - Operate in secrecy Sounds shady, right? Now look at this: Shell Company Tactic Government System Equivalent LLC with no employees Non-profit front group or subcontractor that receives federal funding Layers of ownership Third-party contractors running public housing, CPS, charter schools Money ...