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She Left the Value Menu: What Grown Woman Energy Really Means


She Left the Value Menu: What Grown Woman Energy Really Means

 Inspired by the sacred truth-telling of Dishan Patrice

 Intro:

Some stories cut deep because they sound like our own.
You read them and think, “Did she reach inside my journal?”
That’s how I felt reading a post from a woman named Dishan Patrice—a woman who didn’t just survive struggle love, she graduated from it.

And her words? They’re a mirror.
Not for shame. But for recognition, reclamation, and rebirth.

I used to offer a buffet to my soul and accept crumbs in return.”
🧠 How many times have we labeled emotional starvation as loyalty?
That’s not love—it’s spiritual malnutrition.

“A man who doesn’t want you FOR REAL will accept all you do and still won’t fully appreciate you.”
💔 This is for every woman who mistook being useful for being valued.

“I stopped my heart from performing…”
🕊️ When your love becomes performance art just to be noticed, it’s not love—it’s survival. And the stage was never yours to begin with.

“I am the clarity.”
💡 Let the church say amen. When you heal for real, you stop asking for closure—because your peace is the period.

🌱 Closing Reflection:

What Dishan reminded me—and maybe you too—is this:

We don’t owe anyone access to the healed version of us who suffered for free.
We don't chase love.
We choose it—with clear eyes, clear boundaries, and clear self-worth.

Let that value menu go, Queen.
You’ve been the feast this whole time.

📣 CTA:

If you’re reclaiming your feast energy… share this.
If you’re still healing—bookmark it.
And if you’ve been dishing out love to those who bring nothing to the table, it’s time to flip the table.

#SheHealsSilently
#GrownWomanEnergy
#SurvivorTestimonySeries
#SafeLoveOnly


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