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When Truth Gets Silenced: A Year After My Niece's Death, the System Tried Again

When Truth Gets Silenced: A Year After
My Nieces Death, the System Tried Again

By Pamela Jackson | The Phoenix Coach™ | She Heals Silently™

Some people post to protect. Others post for clout. But what happens when the cameras

roll—and the truth still disappears?

On May 10th, 2025—Mother’s Day—Paul Wert was arrested while waiting for a Lyft. The

video of that arrest made headlines. It spread across timelines, sparking conversations

about over-policing and injustice.

But for me, this story wasn’t just triggering—it was prophetic.

Because May 10th is also my sister’s birthday and some years it's Mother's Day.

And this exact pattern—this cycle of surveillance, silence, and state-sanctioned harm—has

been repeating in my family for years.

The Scene They Never Showed

7 years before this incident, my niece was killed in a car accident. She survived the initial

impact—but the circumstances afterward never added up.

She was coherent. Alert. Alive.

And then suddenly… she wasn’t.

The man who recorded the footage—who was also the first responder on the scene—never

posted the video.

I waited over a year. Gave space. Gave grace.

Eventually, I shared it myself—because her story deserved light.

The video received 1,500 views before the video was flagged.

I asked him directly why he never released it.

He never answered.

Not with words. But his silence spoke volumes.

What They Don’t Want Me to See

Since my niece's death, her brother—my nephew—has been targeted.

His life echoes the same patterns:

- Harassment

- Identity theft

- Vehicle sabotage

- False accusations

- Systemic entrapment

He’s not the first. And I know he won’t be the last.

But what breaks my heart is not just what’s happening to him—

it’s watching those who know the truth stay quiet to protect their status.

I don’t hate the man who filmed the scene.

I don’t blame him for his choices.

But I won’t pretend that silence doesn’t hurt when it’s marketed as concern.

✊I’m Not Your Enemy. I’m Awake.

I’m not here to steal credit, or stir drama, or compete.

I’m here because I have receipts—and a responsibility.

I don’t move for clout.

I move for justice.

You don’t have to agree with how I fight—but you can’t ignore why I do.

I’ve buried children. I’ve watched systems erase my family.

And still—I rise. I write. I reveal.

I don’t fear what people say behind closed doors.

Because truth doesn’t flinch when it’s real.

This Isn’t Just My Story. It’s a Pattern.

The same tactics used against my family are used every day in our communities.

Silence. Discredit. Divide.

And yet—truth has a way of surfacing. Even when delayed. Even when suppressed.

So this blog isn’t to shame anyone.

It’s to say: I see you. I remember. And I’m still standing.

If you’ve ever been silenced for speaking truth,

Or gaslit by those who once stood beside you—

You are not alone.

We don’t need permission to tell our story.

We just need the courage to keep telling it anyway.


– Pamela Jackson

The Phoenix Coach™ | She Heals Silently™

#TheSilentEviction #SurvivorTestimony #JusticeUnmuted

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